thanks for the replies people !
well after checking the coil, dizzy etc i found a fault with the throttle valve switch.. I've ordered a new one (39+VAT) should be here on monday as it's en-route from Germany

So I decided to pull the old one apart.. as you do ! sealed unit, not any more

found 2 dry solder joints inside! re soldered them and the other 2 just to make sure, I presume the heat on the throttle body expanded the joints soo much there was no connection.
Anyway, I fitted it back on and hey presto, fired up with a flick of the key and revved up to ! BUT... it cut out again, wont idle.. so, I fitted 1 of my spare ECU's and all seems to be ok up to now but I've still got to road test it ....
so ... fingers crossed !
I know it was a cheap car and has given me nearly 3 years of trouble free motoring but it really annoys the hell out me when these don't work and are normally bullet proof!
I shall keep you all informed of the progress !
thanks again !